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ly: Arial'=3EWe are travelling through the magnificent Karri forests of West=
ern Australia=2E=A0 The huge trees rise hundreds of feet and they are amongs=
t the tallest in the world=2E=A0 National Parks have set aside some of these=
 beautiful groves of trees to preserve them from the timber cutters=2E=A0 Th=
ere is a saying, 'the taller you are, the harder you fall'=2E=A0 This probab=
ly applies to these tall trees, but it also applies to fathers=2E=A0=A0 Our =
children look to us as role models, whether we like it or not=2E=A0 They wil=
l copy us=A0because they think that their dad is the best in the world=2E=A0=
=A0That's why it is so important to keep standing tall as a dad=2E</SPAN=3E<=
SPAN style=3D'FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-fareast-font-family: ' mso-bidi-font=
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tify'=3E<BR=3ELet me give you an example=2E=A0 As we drove into this Western=
 Australian national park area there was an honesty box=2E=A0 The National P=
arks need funds to keep looking after our wonderful forests=2E=A0 When you e=
nter the national park you are supposed to place money in an envelope and si=
gn a form=2E=A0 I knew that we would only be in the forest for a short time =
because we had a gig to go to further down the coast=2E=A0=A0I reasoned that=
 the National Parks did not need my money and I was only there for a short t=
ime anyway=2E=A0 Of course, my boys and little girl were asking me when I wa=
s going to pay the money=2E=A0 How many times have=A0I lectured them not to =
tell lies but to tell the truth=2E=A0 Here was the acid test=2E=A0 Would=A0I=
 pass=3F=A0 I knew I had to do the right thing because if I didn't, my famil=
y audience would never forget=2E=A0 You see honesty is the best policy and t=
he only way to lead is by example=2E=A0 With a great sense of relief,=A0I st=
uffed that money envelope into the payment container=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=
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ify'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial'=3E<FONT face=3DVe=
rdana=3EDick Smith is an Australian multi-millionaire who is currently worth=
 hundreds of millions of dollars=2E=A0 He started his first business as an e=
lectronics repair shop in Sydney=2E=A0 All his friends in business used to t=
ake some cash out of their business and not declare it in their books=2E=A0 =
The net effect was to cheat the government out of their tax revenue=2E=A0 Di=
ck Smith refused to follow his friends' example and was scrupulously honest=2E=
=A0 He declared all his earnings in his books=2E=A0 When Woolworths=A0bought=
 Dick Smith Electronics' network of shops they paid Dick Smith on his declar=
ed earnings over ten years=2E=A0 He received tens of millions of dollars for=
 his honesty where many of his friends were only able to sell their business=
 for a fraction of their value because they did tell the truth=2E They did n=
ot have the=A0audited profit=A0figures to prove their business net worth=2E=A0=
 Honesty is always the best policy=2E=A0 You don't have to remember as much=2E=
=A0 As Shakespeare said in Hamlet, 'To thine own self be true and as night f=
ollows day you will not be false to any man'=2E=A0 Honesty in children comes=
 from dads who are honest not only in their words but in their dealings=2E=A0=
 Fathers of integrity produce children of integrity=2E=A0 There ain't no sho=
rt cuts=2E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm =
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: Arial'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EIf you want your children to develop a cul=
ture of truth, to always tell the truth, never cheat or steal, you must deve=
lop a culture of truth and honesty in your own life as a father=2E=A0 Over t=
he next week conduct an honesty audit and find out how honest you are=2E=A0 =
You might be surprised at how dishonest you really are=2E=A0Personally=A0I f=
ind it hard to be totally honest=2E=A0As fathers we need to be leaders in tr=
ansparency and honesty=2E=A0 As fathers we need to stand tall and straight=2E=
=A0 The truth can be scary but it is much better than believing a lie=2E</FO=
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=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EYours for the truth</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P clas=
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le=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EWarwick =
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<FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3EWarwick Marsh is the founder of the Fatherho=
od Foundation=2E=A0 Married for 27 years he is the father of five children, =
four boys and one girl, ranging in age from 21 years to 9 years=2E=A0 Warwic=
k is a musician, songwriter, producer and public speaker who likes to think =
he can still laugh at himself=2E</P=3E<P=3E<BR=3E</P=3E</FONT=3E<br=3E<br=3E=
<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</=
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f' background=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fath=
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erdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2E=
au/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fissue21-20th Jan, 2003=5FSteve Wa=
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ify'=3E<BR=3E<STRONG=3EWaugh Zone</STRONG=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=
=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3Eby Paul Slone<BR=3E<BR=3E<BR=
=3EWaugh, Waugh, what is he good for=85absolutely nothing! Remember that cha=
nt some years ago=3F Well, hasn=92t the super twin got them talking now=2E S=
teve Waugh; Aussie icon- almost middle aged, and still able to keep the cric=
ket critics guessing=2E Is he un-sackable=3F Does all the hype surrounding S=
teve Waugh=92s pending sacking from the Australian cricket team represent go=
od sporting publicity and wise decision-making=96 or is it simply a case of =
Tall Poppy Syndrome=3F We Australians are good at bringing the high achiever=
s down to earth=2E Are we a jealous breed=3F Do we detest those who are succ=
essful=3F Maybe we just hate cricket! So, why do we challenge those who are =
having a go at realising their dreams=3F Just look at Christopher Skase; a p=
rime example of an Aussie battler treated with injustice and severity - just=
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o my knowledge regarding the game of cricket, (a knowledge only achieved thr=
ough first hand experience in the elite sporting arena), it becomes evident =
the varsity within the process of =91Player Selection=92=2E I mean who is Tr=
evor Hohns (selection committee) when he is at home=3F Was he really any goo=
d at cricket=3F What makes him an authority on cricket anyway=3F I am appall=
ed at how a mere Neville Nobody (Trev=2E) can hold the career of another spo=
rtsman in his hands=2E Shouldn=92t be allowed! We need a jury, not one or tw=
o has been fossils jealous because they can=92t make the grade anymore=2E ST=
EVE WAUGH for Prime Minister I reckon, he=92s a legend! </P=3E<P class=3DMso=
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'=3EBy now you are probably wondering what all this has to do with the art o=
f fathering=2E Nothing =96 I just wanted to talk about Steve! Just kidding=2E=
 The recent publicity surrounding Steve Waugh=92s position as Australian cap=
tain demonstrates to me the importance of two things in life=2E Others will =
remember you for what you have achieved in your life, and you will judged no=
t only on your achievements, but also your character=2E What if Steve Waugh =
did a Michael Jackson and held his kids over the balcony of his Bankstown ho=
me=3F What if Steve Waugh got convicted of drink driving=3F Would his positi=
on as role model for countless young up and coming Paul Sloan=92s, I mean sp=
ort stars, be tarnished=3F I believe so=2E If Steve Waugh was considered a b=
ad citizen, and a poor role model, I doubt very much that he would even be c=
onsidered a starter for the next cricket series, no matter how he scored his=
 last century=2E His character is as much in the limelight as is his playing=
 ability=2E He needs to be ever watchful of how he carries himself publicly=2E=
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t; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3ESo, the moral of this story=3F Ensure your charact=
er remains one of good morals and ethical standards=2E Be a Father that othe=
rs admire and respect=2E Raise your children in a way that demonstrates soli=
d beliefs and boundaries=2E Don=92t be afraid to demonstrate your love for o=
thers (especially to your spouse and children)=2E Remember guys; we have a r=
ole to play =96 DAD!</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;=
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an active surfer who lives on the Sunshine Coast in Queensland=2E=A0 He is a=
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before he remarried in 1984=2E=A0 Neil is passionate to encourage marriages =
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<STRONG=3E<FONT size=3D3=3EIntegrity - A target for deception</FONT=3E</STRO=
NG=3E<BR=3Eby Ron Hellyer<BR=3E<BR=3E<BR=3EOur greatest battle as fathers is=
 not with other people but with ourselves=2E These inner struggles that pull=
 us from one situation to another with a resultant =91cause and effect=92=2E=
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=2E0pt'=3EIf I=92m angry at something or someone then my human reaction or c=
onsidered response shall cause an effect that I may regret or be satisfied w=
ith=2E </SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bi=
di-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EMen can succumb to the worst of temptations, often=
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ber<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3Ea past U=2ES=2E presiden=
t and the worldwide effect caused by his selfish indiscretions=2E Apart from=
 the sensationalism, there appeared to be little coverage about the affect o=
n his wife and family and more on him lying to the impeachment committee=2E<=
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As fathers we can be tempted at every level of life be it the workplace, soc=
ially, financially, emotionally or relationally=2E Visual temptation on adve=
rtising billboards, internet spam and linked web sites, commercial on televi=
sion and movies are an ever increasing mediums that we must be vigilant of, =
not only for the effect on us but the effect of exposure to our family=2E<o:=
p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt=
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A current Levi jeans billboard advertisement in Australia displaying lesbian=
 women in a physical position can be very deceiving in suggesting this lifes=
tyle to be the norm=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal sty=
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</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN=
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font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EMore than ever in today=92s society fathers not only =
have to guard themselves , but also our families, particularly our sons =96 =
fathers and sons have the same urges=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P clas=
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Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EThere is no doubt that many of my c=
haracteristics in dealing with issues =93 rub off=94 on my children=2E I oft=
en see behaviour in my boys particularly that I recognise as being mimicked =
from me=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThis is sometimes=
 behaviour that I don=92t want to see in them=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<S=
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AMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EThe deceptions we face as fa=
thers are hard to see -<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3Ethey=
 come out of the blue =96 but there is one underlying characteristic:<o:p=3E=
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</STRONG=3E</SPAN=3E<STRONG=3E=91<I=3EYou get something =96 but at a price=92=
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e reward never equals the price=2E=92<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</STRONG=3E</SPAN=3E</I=3E=
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return deliberately it will come back on us later; if we try to cover up a s=
ituation by lying it will come out down the road; if we indulge in sexual pl=
easure outside our marriage it will be exposed in the future=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E=
</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN=
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ZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EAs fathers w=
e have to lead our families in the home , and ourselves in society=2E<o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TE=
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'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EInte=
grity is the foundation against deception=2E To understand that we are decei=
ved by these temptations and recognise the point where we make a decision =96=
 a decision to leave it alone and build our integrity or take the temptation=
 and wade into dangerous waters which will usually get quite hot=2E<o:p=3E</=
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ly desire that my kids and future grandkids will say at my funeral =96 =91Da=
d was a man of integrity=92=2E </SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT=
-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=2E0pt'=3EThis is a continual battle=
 for fathers , but it is a vital component to happy healthy families and the=
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